I Hate My Sister
Human Clauses September 10th, 2007I hate my sister. She is such a loser. I am the baby of my family and she is the oldest. My mom had my sister at an early age (15). My Grandmother decided to raise my sister. So she always lived with my Grandmother.
I have two brothers and then its me the Baby. I absolutely, am a well-grounded person. I have 3 kids ages 16, 13 and 2. I have an excellent boyfriend, house, nice ride, excellent job 50k yearly not including my boyfriends income. I have a lot of associates and a few friends. I am the life of any party and I just love to have fun in whatever I do.
My sister is totally the opposite. She isn’t very bright, she doesn’t speak proper English, she can’t cook, she can’t maintain a stable relationship. She blames everthing that happens to her on other people. She never takes responsiblity for herself or her actions. It’s her, it’s her stubborn attitude, military background, messed up old fashioned upbringing, that allows her brain to be screwed up.
My mom died when I was 5 years old, me and my two brothers ultimately were raised by our maternal grandmother who favors our older sister. I pray daily that this hate can be changed. But The Grandmother is suppose to be the link that holds the chain together. Me and many of my family members don’t see it that way. How could a person like me, so down to earth, witty, intelligent, smart, beautiful as me have this hatred in my heart! I thought maybe if I wrote it I wouldn’t think about it. But as of today, I hate her even more. I wish my Grandmother wasn’t involved in upholding foolishness, but I guess you can’t teach an old dog the new tricks!
I hate my sister and I hate myself for that.
(20 votes, average: 3.85 out of 5)
Loading ...13 Responses to “I Hate My Sister”
Leave a Reply
You must be logged in to post a comment.
October 11th, 2007 at 12:42 am
Did you ever think that oh…I dunno your sister just wants a little encourgament from her successful older sis? You should try it.
December 10th, 2007 at 4:38 am
I hated my sister, too. She was spoiled, selfish, and self-centered. She did everything self destructive thing under the sun and my parents enabled her. We didn’t speak for 9 years after I showed up to confront her abusive boyfriend and she told me to F-off. She turned her life around in 2000 and became an upstanding, church going woman.
Notice a pattern here? All the verbs end in “ED”. She was killed by a teenage driver doing 75 in a 35 mph zone. She died in the street. I miss her everyday.
She hated me for being successful. I hated her for being bad and hurting our family. People can change. We changed together and learned to forgive. Best Wishes.
December 22nd, 2007 at 7:27 pm
DO you even have a sister?… if so i bet she hates you because you are a liar
December 22nd, 2007 at 9:33 pm
I hate my sister every now and then.
But she is my sister and I love her.
Think about this: she will always be your sister and she will always be related to you. No matter how much you fight you will always love her. And she will always love you.
January 18th, 2008 at 6:19 pm
Gee, you sound perfect. since you are why don’t you give your sister a break. She’s probably jealous of you anyway.
January 20th, 2008 at 11:28 pm
You worked so hard to become what you are that you hate people that aren’t doing the same. You know what it feels like to be in her position.
“me and my two brothers ultimately were raised by our maternal grandmother who favors our older sister”
October 21st, 2008 at 12:30 am
im the oldest of my family and my sister is such a snob! and a slut…i meen come on shes only 11
January 1st, 2009 at 10:43 pm
This is a rant on your sister not on you. If you want to continue thinking you are beautiful then think again. You sound like an ugly person who steps on her family.
Maybe she needs moral support from you. It sounds as if YOU are jealous of her, not the other way around. Have you ever thought of hearing her out. HOw would she feel if her “Baby” sister has never looked up to her once and publicizes that she hates her mess of a sister?
Stop making yourself sound like a saint. Your last sentence really cracked me up.
HOwever i suppose your sister is very troublesome as well.
If YOU, yourself cannot bring yourself to make up with her then you should avoid her.
After that when some years pass off and you’ve matured a bit more then confront her and try to make up.
I speak of experience since I have 4 older sisters and an older brother. I am the youngest out of all 6 of us.
February 16th, 2009 at 7:07 pm
i hate my sister. she is older than me by a year. i hate her for being successful. im so sick of being next to her all the time. she is the one that gets everything. i hate her for being so successful. im sick of feeling so inferior. shes prettier smarter more talented has more social skills stronger and better than me in every way. and though i have my good and unique qualities i am always the lower sister, the least successful one, the ugly one, the quiet one, the invisible one. and though we’ve mostly been very close and she likes me for who i am, she can be a bitch sometimes and sometimes feels like you do, hates me for being a loser and making our parents mad and not being successful or whatever. but i hate her sometimes. a lot. when i see how successful and better she is. i know its stupid to feel this way. we shouldn’t compare ourselves to others and if i want to be better than make myself better and blah blah but it still hurts to be so invisible. i hate her. i feel like nothing when im around her. i suppose its my own fault but whatever. i still hate her for not understanding and helping me. i hate her.
February 16th, 2009 at 7:12 pm
i dont know what to do. i dont think ill make it. all my life shes been the competent successful one and ive never assumed any of those roles. im afraid i dont have it in me to survive in life because of how ive felt all these years. im hoping ill stop feeling like this once shes gone and learn how to do the things shes done and hopefully become successful too. but as long as shes here its so much harder. i feel like a piece of shit around her.
February 27th, 2009 at 7:46 pm
Are you currently in a major dispute with a family member? Is this feud causing a ruckus in your household, or making home life unbearable? Are other family members staying neutral or are sides being chosen? Has the dispute elevated to the point where some legal action has been taken or has become necessary? Are you considering seeking family counseling for this feud, or does this feud seem to have no end in sight?
OR, is your family currently feuding with another family, like a modern day Hatfields vs McCoys? Are you not allowed to talk to them, even though you might be friends with one of their members? If you feel like a family reunion is going to be virtually impossible to pull off this year or ever, MTV wants to hear from you.
If you appear to be between the ages of 17-28 and are embroiled in a family feud please email us at FamilyFeud@mtvn.com. Be sure to include your name, your story, a phone number and a photo.
Tell MTV why you need to be seen and heard. This is your chance to let others see what your life is all about!
March 20th, 2009 at 2:03 am
i hate my younger brother and hes only 4 but its like he trys everything to ruin and my life and he accomplshes i hate him so much i might kill him!!! im going krazy!!
April 8th, 2009 at 4:43 am
I extremely hate my older sister too! She’s like 9 years older than me. She has the WORST attitude, I swear! Very, very rude! Like no breeding at all! She’s very, very spoiled! We’re only two siblings and she’s my mother’s favorite (my parents are separated so we rarely see/communicate with our dad). She’s very, very moody and she’s extremely lazy. She’s such an introvert, doesn’t have much friends. She’s morbidly obese (no kidding, she’s really a mountain) Also, she claims that she has “depression”, always crying and feeling sorry for herself. As for me, I am an extrovert, I have lots of friends, have a perfect boyfriend, quite attractive in my opinion, slim, smart enough, and popular. She’s always jealous of me!!!! I am not flattered or anything because hello? she’s my sister ! Instead of being competitive, she just cries and cries and feel sorry for herself! She doesn’t even help herself by losing weight or something. One time she hit me hard on my face for no valid reason! I super hate her! No way Im going to entertain her in my life. She is zero. A disgrace to humanity!!!!!! I am ashamed of her!!!!! Ewwwww!