I Hate Being Polite!
Human Clauses April 8th, 2007This world is overloaded with stereotypes. Why in hell should I call a man ‘a distraction’, if he’s a total dickhead. This God damn politeness drives me mad. I hate being polite! Why should I, if no one cares, it’s just the question of the stereotyped morale which we all pretend to live according to, but which we all hate as much as possible.
I hate being polite because I am polite since birth. I’m naturally polite. I won’t call a girl ‘bitch’ if she’s not. But I simply can’t understand why I can’t call her ‘bitch’ when she acts like a bitch.
I hate being polite because I can’t stand lying to ourselves and the others. When you spill hot coffee on your knees, what do you want to say? Not ‘Oh, what a pity…”, huh? ‘What a f*cking mess!’ instead (at least), am I right? So why can’t people just say what they have on their tongue? Oh, yeah. The incredible politeness.
Bullshit. Politeness is not a positive feature. It’s just a feature of the character which is suppressed and highly influenced by the surrounding morale. And almost all of us are. Honesty is a positive feature. But are we honest when we are polite? Oh, man, NO! It’s exactly the opposite. We lie a lot, because we are ‘polite’. We tell the ugly girl we don’t want her out again because ….. (choose your favorite), but we don’t tell her the exact reason. She knows the reason, she’s not stupid. And in her mind and memory you’re just another motherf*cker, who has lied to her. Being polite, please notice!
I hate being polite. I hate people being polite. I want to be honest and I want people to be honest. That’s why now I’m trying to be honest with you.
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April 16th, 2007 at 7:01 pm
what the f_ck are woofin about i would say something nice but being polite is’nt the name of this game i can’t edit the post but i can post comment, like i hate saying hi to people or opening doors like i’m a slave just because i have a good personality, fuckit i might just let it bust you know then hate it it my opionin
April 29th, 2007 at 5:01 pm
I’m nor sure if I’m with you here or not. One of my pet hates is rudeness. I can’t stand people who won’t treat other people with basic respect. By your own admission you are a polite person; you won’t abuse someone for the sake of just using the words. Yet you go on to say politeness is dishonesty.
There is a difference between artificial manners and being polite. I would say that most people understand basic manners but there are the few who’s selfishness goes to the point of treating everyone around them like they are just a background to the “movie” of their own life. Such people are just plain rude; and being polite would not occur to them in their most out-there moments.
You ask “why should I, if no one cares?”. Why let other peoples’ cares dictate how you behave? You are either acting as who you are, or you are pretending. Don’t be “polite” for the sake of appealing to others. If you are “naturally polite” as you claim to be, then groove with that.
Since when have manners and dishonesty gone hand in hand? A person can be polite and still express their real feelings. It comes down to how you express it. In fact, I’d argue that the most honest way of expressing your feelings is not by just swearing and carrying on like a spoiled brat, but by coolly and succinctly putting your case across. Such honesty cuts through a billion attention-seeking temper tantrums.
You don’t want to go out with the ugly girl because you think she’s ugly? Is that a real example? Perhaps she’s right to think of you as a motherfucker then. But why go out with her if you’re not attracted to her in the first place? Where does the dishonesty begin there?
Loosing it I can relate to. We all loose it. There is no dishonour in making a dick of yourself if you own up to it afterwards and make an effort to learn from it (so I think, anyway). Making a lifestyle out of it..I’m not so sure.
May 10th, 2007 at 10:31 pm
I SO0 agree wit ur clause. nowadayz lying iz being masked wit the excused uv politeness or “trying not to be mean” when in fact lying to the person and misusing their trust iz mean enuf! i mean, f*ck politeness nd seyy wat u wana seyy, regardless.
May 12th, 2007 at 3:59 pm
I kind of agree with you. While I don’t think it should be acceptable for people to be complete pricks to each other, I think that politeness shouldn’t prevent someone from getting their point across…like the kids at my school who won’t say anything bad when peer editing because it’s “mean and impolite.”
May 31st, 2007 at 12:34 pm
i go to a new skol now and politness is a plague there, no matter what u become more polite no matter how hard u try u just f*cking get polite… i used to cause havoc on the streets bcoz i was filled with hatred but now i have caught the plague and i getting more and more polite each week… I CANT STAND IT!!!!