I hate my husband!
Human Clauses January 3rd, 2006I am to the point that everytime my husband leaves the house I hope he gets into a car accident. I hate him with every ounce of my being. I hate the way he treates me - always bullying me around, calling me names and humiliating me infront of people. I am sick and tired of everyone looking at me like “poor her” instead of “what a freaking jerk!”.
Everyone kisses his butt because he is the bread winner. They don’t care that he never lets anyone speak or that everyone is always wrong -nope! They have their noses so far up his ass it is unreal. It is a loosing battle.
He’s a cheat, a liar and sociopath. He told me it would be cheaper to have me killed than to get a divorce. He has destroyed everything I ever wanted to do - jobs, friends, hobbies - you name it. We tried to talk with someone, but he is so damn charming that I looked like the bad guy.
I’m balling and looking pathetic and he’s all pulled together and “sane”. It’s a joke. I hate him. I told him if he ever touches me again it will be the LAST thing he ever does to me.
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January 3rd, 2006 at 6:33 am
leave him!
January 3rd, 2006 at 9:40 pm
I think you need to do some serious talking to someone and fast. Do not be ashamed to tell someone if he is abusing you. The first step is never easy but you need to take it. Don’t you think it is time to upgrade to survivor. You are only a victim as long as you stay.
January 4th, 2006 at 9:09 pm
Grow up… Stop whining and do something about it.
February 3rd, 2006 at 8:06 am
Divorce. End.
March 25th, 2006 at 11:11 pm
You don’t need anyone to tell you what time it is. You are there because you feel you should be for whatever reason, and it is your own reason. Don’t stop looking for your inner strength, because when you decide to leave, you will need it.
read this:
www.gohate.com
hr anderson in detroit
April 30th, 2006 at 6:54 am
I sorta know how that you feel, my husband has 4 kids of his own 2 i can deal with pretty good, But my biggy is that my HUSBAND pawns my WEDDING RINGS and promises to pick them back up but guess what its been like 4 months now, and all he can say is that he does not understand why i fuss over it, like your situation its like im the bad guy and he is so special, i dont love my husband anymore, he does nothing but Lie, and the other biggy is that he is forever more saying IM DOING ALL I CAN, im yet to see what hes doing, But yet he still thinks that im gonna lay down for him anytime that he wants, I really dont have a sexual desire for him anymore, Lies are getting old its mainly the rings but a whole lot more as well
September 7th, 2006 at 8:02 pm
bad things only happen to you if you let them!! Smarten Up girl!!!
November 18th, 2006 at 4:56 pm
I HATE my husband also, I swear the first sentence about him leaving the house and getting into the car accident was so me. I say that almost every day. I’ll even day dream about it. I would be better off and I would’t even be able to shed a tear. He is a horrible husband and father. He does nothing for me or the children its all about him. the comments that you have from other people saying things like just leave him or divorce or stop whining, They have no idea! Its easy for people to give advice when they aren’t living your life. And statistics show the highest growing poverty class is single mothers. You”ll leave when your ready, when your able and until then just know that your not alone, and who knows maybe you’ll get lucky and he will die in a car accident.
November 23rd, 2006 at 9:54 am
Sometimes its easier said then done. I grew up watching my parents fight, it still hurts me till this day. after my step father left my older brother started taking over by beating on me. I ran every chance I could from home. I was reported as a run away. I got a bad rep. I was violated alot when I was growing up and those memorys stick. When I tried to tell someone what was happening know one would listen, ( I was a problem child). nobody would here it because I would lie about were i was or if i was doing drugs. till this day ive been trying to get something normal in my life. so if you are getting hurt you better damn well stick up for yourself! expect something worse than what you have already! it not for you than do it for the children before its to late. I am now a Navy wife, I have two beautiful children and I’m in school again. I stopped talking to all of my family members. your time is up now make your move!
March 27th, 2007 at 7:23 pm
Wow! It’s good to know that I’m not alone! I also, have begun to hate my husband. The only reason that I don’t leave him is because we have two kids and I don’t want to disrupt their lives. I went through my own parents’ divorce when I was a kid and I don’t want to put my kids through that. I often daydream about being a widow…I’d really put on a show for everyone(the sad, lonely widow!). I would really love it if he would just leave me for someone else so I’ve decided to not have sex with him any more. I’ve been giving it up from time to time just to keep the family harmony, but I’m sick of it and of him. Now I need to vent about what exactly I hate about him: 1)He gets so drunk that he passes out when he’s supposed to watching the kids(I work full-time at night so that they don’t have to go to daycare). 2)He has some of the worst breath in the world!!! 3)He chews with his mouth open(GROSS!!!!) and he knows that I hate that. 4)He’s really, really impatient and drives like a maniac. 5)He lies about almost everything and exagerates all the time.(Why, I don’t know.) 6)He tries to grope me when I don’t want to be messed with,(ie. like when he’s totally drunk) and he seems to think that this is foreplay. and finally(most of you ladies will appreciate this one!)7)Every time he does the slightest thing around the house,(like take out the trash, which he rarely does) he has to tell me over and over again what he did. It’s not like I don’t appreciate it and thank him for doing whatever he does, but why doesn’t he stop wasting time and just grab a bullhorn and stand on the roof to make his announcement! Wow, it feels good to get all of that off my chest! Now all I have to do is wait until he either leaves me or my youngest child grows up, then I can finally live a happier life.
April 7th, 2007 at 1:50 am
I really hope some one reads this and learns. I am 28 yr old mother of 2 of the best children…..but I hated their dad and I wanted OUT. I use to wish he got in an accident on his way to work so that I could move home to my family. Then one day when my son was 8 months old and “Daddy” wouldn’t even make him a bottle at 5am. I laid in my bed and wished ” Please just let him get into an accident on his way to work and I’ll go home to my family”
I truely laid there and said to myself” How can you be such a bitch,I’m sure he does not wish death on you…go back to sleep” 2! hours later there were police knocking at my door. There was an accident nd they didn’t know if he was dead or alive. Unfortunatly he was alive . I still moved home but learned a lesson to be careful what I wished for.
September 2nd, 2007 at 4:39 am
Why don’t we all learn then??? I’m 37 been with a pervert all my loving days! Gr8 in the day but as soon as the weekend comes he hits the bottle and pervs on all my friends esp my best friend, yet in the morning it’s “i’m only messing about!” I had a bad up bringing, to be fair so has he. I can bear to tear the kids away from their father, as I had been. Not joking either USA to be precise! I’m in termoil, it’s not just that easy divorce. On the week he’s gr8. I just wannabe loved one part of my life! Can some one tell me when it get’s easier!! I was i hospital with phneumonia 5months pregnant he was pissing it up and chatting on the net! yet I still forgive hoping 4 a miracle! I’m not an angel, yet he cant understand all this causes me to bite back! with my moods!!! Please girls don’r marry 4 lust nor looks it all changes. Marry the one who treats a women how they deserve to be treated! need help please!!!!!! I think we r all driven to the bottle for our unhappiness!!
November 12th, 2007 at 5:23 pm
I have been in an abusive relationship for 11 years. I will not take the physical abuse anymore as of 3 years ago. I told my husband that is he ever touched me again I would not without a doubt go to the police. My husband is a coward always has been. He has not touched me since. But, the mental abuse has also always been there and that continues. It still hurts but I always try to remember that he is a piece of garbage and always will be. The saying by us abused to the non abused about “easier said than done”. We have children that we have to feed, clothe and try not to disrupt their lives. They are only #1 priority. They come first and only first. The economy stinks today, and for a single woman trying to raise a child virtually will be impossible (and alot of us woman know we can’t count on child support. We abused women do what we have to do. I too also hopes my husband bites the dust as horrible as it may seem. To me an abusive husband is no different than a murderer.
January 27th, 2008 at 4:30 am
I wish I could say I hate my husband because he is abusive or a jerk. The fact is, he is a really loving guy. That is why no one sees the problems. They just see a “nice guy”, and I look like the mean one. My issue is that he is LAZY and has NO CLUE about the real world. He has no balls, motivation or self initiative and I have to do everything. Right now we are about to be homeless, we barely have heat and food and our electric is about to be cut off. He has no work ethic and when I quit my job (which we agreed upon) to go to school (so we might have money someday) he was supposed to take care of everything else but he didn’t do jack! The minute I put him in charge everything fell apart. Right now the sight of him sickens me and when he starts blubbering like a baby and pouring out the excuses all I see is a pathetic weakling. Just grow up and get some freaking balls would ya! I mean, we have a child too… what kind of rolemodel is that? I do blame myself for not seeing it sooner and not getting the hell out. Now my Catholic family won’t support a divorce and I will be disowned if I try to break it off.AHHHHH!!
January 29th, 2008 at 6:28 am
I can’t beleive i can say I hate anyone, but I do. My husband. Maybe It’s not so much him as it is me for staying and tolerating as if I was chained and powerless. I do hate wimps. I’ve been one. I am one. I told my husband I want a divorce. That didn’t go over well. I don’t have a job. I’m on antidepressants. I’m wiped. But I do know that I cannot be with him one more day. I too thought it would be easier if he just expired. I wish he had life insurance. He’s very childish. 24 yrs. of crap. I’ve tolerated it this long because I went to school, work, and visited with friends. I had outside support. All against his wishes. He’s so negative. Toxic. He’s gotten progressively worse with age. He’s always reminded me of the troll under the bridge. I can ignore only so long. I’ve also had lots of therapy. this has helped greatly as I can see it’s me not me. I no longer take responsiblity for his crap. I don’t feel bad. I did more than any person should. I am no longer his puppet on a string. I am in control of my emotions. He used to say you don’t love me, you always put me down, you this, you that, and I would defend and explain. All untrue. But it worked, he got the focus off him/us and on me. A master manipulator. I stopped doing this years ago. I don’t explain what he already knows. I just listen. If he yells I walk away. I know what’s true I don’t need to defend/explain. All these husband complaints are the same guy. i can relate to all. He doesn’t need to change. you do. It only took me 20 yrs. ha ha. I was scared. Still am. But more scared of living this non life. I can’t pretend not to see anymore. Women are the strongest people on earth. We can do anything. I just had to get up from being trampled on and love me.
February 21st, 2008 at 6:12 am
You know what. I am married for 2 years now and since then i’ve always told my husband how I regreted marrying. I should’ve just enjoyed myself being single. I hate my husband for being such a big bitch about everything I say. Whenever I say something, he’s got something else to say back to me. I always label him as a “fag” because he talks more than I do. I always tell him that as a husband, he’s supposed to be the calm, and laid-back one. BUT NO! He always wants to prove his points everytime we fight. And he always want to voice out and say a lot of shit just to prove himself that he’s right. He is SOOO defensive about everything I say. First of all, he’s a dirty person. He doesn’t know how to follow rules. And he doesn’t even hear me when I say thank you. All that’s input to his mind is that I hate him and never appreciate what he’s ever done, which pisses me so damn off because I know I did something right to help the marriage,yet he pushes me to the edge and just provokes me that I always whine about our marriage. I don’t whine without any reason! I always complain when I see something wrong, which I think might be wrong but damn! I’m helpless with everything! He is worse than A KID! He takes his shoes inside the house, he dresses like a bag, and he just wants to sit in the house and be a big nerd! I am not like that type of person. And one time, he even told me that he would never change for anybody, not even for me! Suck it up! What, he can’t change for me, yet I have to adapt what he’s into? That’s fucking bullcrap! Think of the logic! he’s not making any sense! I can’t just adjust for him! He needs to adjust as well. One time he told me that in order for a marriage to work out, we BOTH have to work together. How can we work together if he’s not evne willing to change for the well0being of our family? We have a daughter and all he does is say the word, “NO” to her all the fucking time! He swears right in front of my daugther and never controls it at all. I try to change him from that but it seems that he’s fund of swearing all the time. I am swearing right now because I am pissed. All I want is for him to adjust himself for me and my daughter. I want him to spend time for his daughter as well. And not just say no whenever our daughter does something he unacceptable. I always tell him to explain to our daughter why he said no, but he just says no. All he wants is SEX! Ad if I don’t give it up, he will be an asshole over it and says that i’m his wife. He thinks he owns me! He thinks he can do anything to me because i’m his wife! I want out, but because we have a daughter i’m stucked! Sometimes, I just give it up but imagine somebody I would’ve wished I married and dump him from the time I knew he cheated! Whenever we have sex, I just close my eyes and imagine somebody.
February 21st, 2008 at 6:14 am
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March 11th, 2008 at 10:01 am
I can’t believe I am at this point with anyone. It’s not like me. But I hate my husband too. Verbal abuse. Soul Killing.
April 11th, 2008 at 10:18 pm
Thank God I am not alone. I was about to check myself into a mental ward because I thought no one else feels this way I have rage! But after reading this, I feel much better and can so relate.
April 15th, 2008 at 7:41 pm
I hate my husband as well, and totally relate with the “accident wish”. I make that wish daily. Isnt that awful what these men can turn us into.I dont normally hate anyone, or wish bad things like that, but he is so horrible. He denies abuse, taunts me like a child would, is a horrible father, thinks he is wonderful and everyone is jealous of him (not so). He cant have an intelligent conversation, and always has conspiracy theories in his head how people he works with are “out to get him”. Most outsiders dont see how mean and awful he is, which makes me sick. I have even gotton to the point where I question myself. Getting out isnt as easy as people think with 4 kids, and lots of bills. I pray every day I will find a way, and find happiness.
April 19th, 2008 at 9:14 pm
I hate my husband too. I wish he were dead. Last night I was sending him some really deadly vibes. I can not think about anything else right now except the fact that I learned he has had a “sex partner” since at least November 7 2007. That is when she left a post on his adult friend finder site he supposedly set up in April. What a F@ckng LIAR! My parents love him, his parents love me and everyone on the outside think we are this great couple. That is why I think he needs to have a trgic accident, a massive corenary or stepoff a cliff or drown while he is kayaking. I don’t think I would even cry as it stands today.
Everyone thinks he is so great, but I garuntee if they had to live with his nagging and complaining for just one month, they would have a death wish on him too.
But I AM DOING MORE THAN JUST SENDING DEATH VIBES HIS WAY…
I am job hunting too! Once I find a job that pays fairly decent (Where I don’t have to work 60hrs per week) I can hate him from afar